Ever have those feelings that the crying, the waking, the endless feeding will never end? Want it all to stop? Before you change a thing, read the words from a mother who's been there and done that. And at the end of the day you will learn that this too shall pass (and you might even miss it).
It's horribly important to talk to your kids in an age appropriate manner, about bad touches and bad secrets, but that's not enough. My parents did that, and did it very well... Most victims don't tell because they are afraid, afraid of the consequences of telling.