Today is Blog Action day and the topic is Human Rights. It seems the perfect day to announce on EP that I have taken up a new role: I am now a member of the Advisory Board for the Children’s Health and Human Rights Partnership. What is this? It’s a Canadian group of doctors, midwives, nurses, policy writers, IT professionals, and, well, me who agree to work to uphold the rights children have had legally bestowed on them in Canada. Looking at the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, and the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms, we see that the rights adopted in this country are not always respected or upheld and it is most clear when we speak of routine infant circumcision. Yes, routine infant circumcision violates the aforementioned treaties and laws.
I have spoken about the research on the medical arguments for circumcision elsewhere (you can see all of them here). The CHHRP has a video from it’s co-founder, Dr. Christopher Guest, which you can view here.
What I want to talk about here is the parental reaction when one says that circumcision is a human rights issue and what it really means to say it’s a human rights issue in terms of advocacy. Often I see a lot of defensiveness arise from parents that have circumcised and so I want to talk about what it means when I make my stance known. Because I get why there’s defensiveness. Of course there is – it’s like I’m saying you violated the rights of your child and who on earth isn’t going to be defensive about that?
I do like to think that if everyone had the information I had, they would come to the same conclusion as I, but I know they must also have the same cultural perspective. It’s this latter part that I have no control over and that influences so much of how people respond to circumcision and the information about circumcision. In Europe, most people can’t fathom why anyone would circumcise a child when it wasn’t medically indicated. It’s incomprehensible. Their cultural lens is one that does not have a history of circumcision being pushed for by those in power and thus it is viewed through a lens that looks at the rights of the child and sides against any procedure that does not help the child immediately or in the future. Like circumcision.
Go to the USA, however, and it’s a different story. Though many people seem unaware that the push for routine infant circumcision in the US started as an effort to curb masturbation amongst young men (hence the decision to remove the most sensitive part of the penis), the view of sex being bad and dirty while refraining from sex is seen as pure and clean has affected the view of circumcision. From this original reason, the cut penis was seen as cleaner and more “godly”, in a sense. Thus, there is a cultural lens that sees the cut penis as “cleaner” and “nicer”. And because we are human, when we think of something as cleaner, it is also “better” and we view all the research, all the pros and cons, through the lens that the cut penis must be better. And that lens is hard to remove.
For example, even though parents who circumcise must sign a form stating they know there are no medical benefits to circumcision, that it is purely cosmetic, people come out talking about “hygiene” issues and how uncut boys will get infections and be in pain. Even the people doing the circumcisions are aware that’s not the case, but will sometimes subtly suggest that it’s easier to care for or better for these same reasons.
So parents, I can see that you made a decision through your cultural lens and I don’t think you set out to hurt your child, to violate their rights, and you certainly didn’t sign up to be called names. I get it. But it doesn’t mean I’m going to stay quiet about the act itself or “agree to disagree” or think “to each his own”. Because it still remains a human rights issue.
As such, the focus needs to be on those who are advocating for circumcision and performing the surgeries. The people who are “doing the harm” so to speak. In this I hold the individual doctors and organizations like the AAP fully accountable as violating the rights of children in their country – children who they have promised to protect and do no harm. How? Because they are performing cosmetic surgery on a non-consenting child. And yes, parents can consent to necessary surgeries, but there is no medical need with routine infant circumcision, and no future therapeutic benefit strong enough to say that it should be routine. They would never cut off a child’s fingertip or earlobe or tip of a nose with no medical reason, but the penis? Well, that’s supposed to be different?
I also hold them accountable in not sharing accurate risks. Is it weird that the AAP refuses to report the risk of death as a risk at all in the information they give parents? I find that morally and legally wrong when, depending on the research, you’re looking at between 2 and 117 deaths per year due to circumcision (the large range due to what is considered “due to”). I fail to see how parents can make informed decisions when they aren’t warned of the actual risks involved in their decision. In fact, as pointed out by Ronald Goldman in a published response to the AAP’s statement:
[The statement on risks] ignores effects of circumcision pain on infants, two dozen surgical risks including death, functions of the foreskin, connections between circumcision and erectile dysfunction, trauma of circumcision, psychological harm to men, using condoms to prevent STDs, conflicts with its own bioethics committee, lack of true informed consent, and unknown harms that have not been studied.
In fact, because of the human rights that children are born with – even in the United States – one attorney, Mr. Peter Adler, responded (in print again) to the AAP statement with the following:
As a legal matter, the rule is that physicians cannot operate on healthy children. Boys, like girls and adults, have absolute rights under the common law, constitutional law, and human rights law to bodily and hence to genital integrity, to be free from harm, and to choose their own religion or no religion. Physicians cannot take orders from parents for reasons having nothing to do with medicine. Physicians and parents also cannot lawfully circumcise boys because men rarely choose circumcision for themselves. In fact, physicians and parents have a legal duty to protect boys from circumcision.
It all comes down to those who are performing surgeries or the governing bodies that are arguing in favour of it (notably with the push to make sure it’s covered by insurance so they can get paid). At some point, we need these people to realize that the infant boy has as much of a right to his body as the infant girl (and I’m not talking about the extreme female genital mutilation, but the types of female circumcision that are less invasive than male circumcision yet are still disallowed). They need to be held accountable and they need to realize they are violating law and human rights.
You may still feel good in your decision to circumcise. I’m okay with that. But please don’t expect me to do anything less than continue to speak about a human rights issue as a human rights issue. It’s not personal, it’s not an attack on you, but it is a statement against those who seek to violate the rights of children and systematically provide incorrect information to families.
I was wondering if you could give me some advice related to circumcision. My husband and I agreed not to circumcise our son before he was born. However, now that he is here, we have found out that he has a hypospadias. We have been told by multiple doctors (after seeking additional opinions) that in my son’s case, this will lead to painful erections or erectile dysfunction later in life. his foreskin is also incomplete (it doesn’t cover the whole head of the penis) The surgery to repair this requires them to use his foreskin. Thus, he will be circumcised. We have researched alternative methods of correcting this issue and there is a technique that doesn’t require this, but we cannot find anyone who knows how to use that technique. We are at a loss as to whether we can trust the doctors to give us their truly objective medical opinion about this issue to begin with (concerning whether correcting a hypospadias is really a medical issue or a cosmetic issue that people like to make into a medical one). And we are upset that he now must be circumcised also if we go through with the surgery. What would you do if you were in our position??
Have you spoken to a urologist? I would, if I were you, talk to Save Our Sons or Intact America (assuming US?) to find the names of reputable urologists who may be able to give you an opinion you feel more confident with, even if it’s circumcision. Remember that there are some reasons for medical circumcision and you should never feel bad about having to do what is best for your boy.
Please check with saving our sons. Most cases of hypospadias correct on their own over time. “If he can pee. Let him be”
Have a look at this link https://facebook.com/notes/circumcision-resources/is-hypospadias-repair-necessary-most-of-the-time-no-and-it-can-be-very-damaging-/650149735062867/?refid=12&ref=bookmark
I have heard the argument to delay a surgical repair for hypospadias until the boy is of age, and old enough to consent. He may wish to keep his foreskin instead of having the repair, once he researches circumcision. Good luck!
Yes, two of the opinions were from urologists. We will check with them to see if they have a recommendation. Thank you so much!
Thank you for this post! I think so many people ‘go with the flow’ and don’t actually THINK about what they are doing and why. I unfortunately do judge parents who do this as it is completely irresponsible and shows a complete absence of critical thinking.
The body belongs to the person inside. Letting the boy decide for themselves is the ethical thing to do. The decision to circumcise is a LIFELONG decision. The foreskin is a part of the penis and not an “extra flap of skin’ as some people mistakenly believe. It is actually attached fully to the penis until later in life when it gets pulled back. So when you choose to circumcise your boy you are actually cutting off a chunk of his penis.
NO! Do not mutilate your son’s penis, let him decide what to do about it when he gets older and can decide on his own. It’s HIS body after all, NOT yours!
Thank you for this article. One thing that confuses parents like me, who are not yet convinced one way or the other, is the conflicting research available. I’d love to hear your response to this recent research from Mayo Clinic Proceedings: http://www.mayoclinicproceedings.org/webfiles/images/journals/jmcp/jmcp_ft89_4_1.pdf
I am genuinely seeking more information here. I love your website and look forward to hearing your response. Thank you!
I have written on the research here: https://gku.flm.mybluehost.me/evolutionaryparenting.com/circumcision-science-and-religion-part-1/
In short, I know Dr. Morris is a HUGE proponent of circumcision and everyone else would consider the risk-benefits quite differently. Here’s a great response to the AAP statement from doctors around the world: http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/early/2013/03/12/peds.2012-2896
Thank you for your response. I’ve read the links you shared, I was just hoping you might respond to this new piece that MCP put out. Selfish, I know, but I am an English professor and not a scientist, and frankly the more I read about this issue the more confused I become. Thanks again!
I’ll take the time and do a proper response on the site 🙂 Just not sure when!!! 🙂
Wow, thank you! I look forward to it. 🙂
That piece is a flawed “study” based on outdated information and greatly exaggerated. (I.e. Falsified)
The bottom line is it’s his body. Any decisions made to alter it should be his. And as a parent, knowing that a newborn can die, hemorrhage and go into a coma from less than two ounces of blood loss… That risk is not worth any perceived benefits. (There aren’t any)